Tag: funny

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Quality Time With My Girl

“Lydia, what should I blog about for this week?”

“Well, we’re spending time together. You could write about that.”

It’s interesting that spending time together was at the forefront of Lydia’s mind. 

Recently, she took a quiz about the five love languages at school. It was a modified version the school counselor gave them around Valentine’s day. It was so insightful!

I am familiar with the idea, but I hadn’t thought of it for Lydia. Apparently, quality time is her highest-ranked love language, followed by words of affirmation. (Mine too!)

So, perhaps that’s why she has asked to play games together, watch movies together, read together, and so on lately. Somewhat par for the course, but I’ll take it!

Sometimes, Lydia is my little shadow, but I don’t mind. These moments will not last forever, so I am soaking up the quality time with my girl. 

So, last night, Lydia requested we have a movie night together. Truthfully, I didn’t want to watch another movie, our second this week.

I was focused on this blog, though I hadn’t started writing it yet. I had several other things to do, too. But, Lydia requested “Mom’s Night Out” which was downstairs in our basement.

I stalled as I was making dinner, and I couldn’t recall if it was kid-friendly or not (rated PG). I didn’t really want to take time to figure it all out, but Lydia went ahead and set it up anyway.

In the end, we had fun laughing about the movie, which essentially is a massive misunderstanding. Hilarious! I paused it now and then to explain things, but I didn’t feel it was inappropriate. In fact, I had forgotten how painfully funny it is.

The laughter and messages were just what I needed.

At one point, Lydia sat on my lap (causing me to take a break from writing). Her hug turned into compliments and tickles. It was perfect.

Sometimes, it feels like I have a million things to do. It’s easy to rush and forget about what’s most important. That might change from day to day, but I am grateful for simple moments with Lydia. God is so good to me!

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God, thanks for all you do for me and have given me. Thanks for leading me and reminding me of what’s important, to take time with those I love. May I soak up Your love and be a blessing to others. In Jesus’ Name, Amen

Questions: Do you know your love language(s)? Do you know the love languages of those around you?

Tasks: When unexpected situations arise, trust God and just roll with them. You don’t have to do it all perfectly. You might be surprised to discover it’s just what you needed!

Posted on in Being Gracious, Miscellaneous, Parenting, Words

Lessons in Miscommunication

On Monday night, Lydia and I started a movie that was based on Malta, an island in the Mediterranean. She had never heard of this before, so I had her look it up online. We found the flag and other pertinent details about the country.

I also told her that’s where (the Apostle) Paul was shipwrecked on his way to be tried in Rome. He was bitten by a poisonous snake, and the natives were surprised when he was unharmed. Paul was invited to winter there, and he healed several people and discussed Jesus with those in charge. (See Acts 27-28)

So, last night, we went to the store and bought blueberries, among other items. At home, Lydia noticed they were from Chile and asked where that is.

L: Is that near Italy?

N: No, Chile is in South America. Italy is in the Mediterranean… Oh, let’s finish that movie tonight, if we can.

L: Ok, sure! Was Paul born in Italy?

N: No, he was born in Tarsus (modern day Turkey?). He was a Roman citizen, but he was also Jewish, from the tribe of Benjamin. He ended up in Jerusalem and persecuted those who first believed in Jesus. But, then he had a lifechanging encounter with Jesus! 🤓

L: Oh, so does that mean Aunt Livi is Jewish?

N: 🤔 … ??  Oh! I thought you meant the Apostle Paul because we were talking about the Mediterranean! But, you were talking about Uncle Paul. No, his family is Italian, but he was born in the US. And, no, he’s not Jewish and neither is Aunt Livi!

L, cracking up: Mom!! Oh my gosh!

Ah, lessons in communication… or is that miscommunication?! 😆

Perhaps I went a little overkill with Lydia. But, I try to take advantage of all the opportunities I can! Plus, I sincerely thought we were on the same page!

Lydia and I laughed so much at how one thing lead to another. Though, I wonder how many times we make assumptions about someone means. This example is funny, but sometimes, there is more at stake!

This was a good reminder for me to make sure to pay attention to what Lydia is saying and what she actually wants to know. I don’t need to overexplain, and I don’t want to be insensitive to her needs. It pays to pause and listen!

If anything, we can take a cue from the Apostle Paul. We can speak up and speak clearly, pointing people back to Jesus. While I may not always do it perfectly, I am grateful He already knows what’s on my heart and mind. May we use our words to bring glory to God, trusting He will give us the right words when we need them.

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God, thanks for always communicating Your love for us clearly. Thanks for making Your love personal to each of us. Thanks for listening and leading us every day. May we listen and understand Your heart so we can translate that to others. In Jesus’ Name, Amen

Question: Do you have a funny story of miscommunication?

Tasks: Tell me your favorite (funny) story of miscommunication… bonus points if it is with a kid! Remember to pause periodically to make sure you are communicating correctly.

 

Posted on in Being Gracious, Miscellaneous, Wisdom

Would You Like Some Brownie Points?

In some ways, grace sounds a lot like simple etiquette. And while I have absolutely no plans and no desire to become the next Dear Abby…

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Here are some easy ways to earn ‘Brownie points’ with me:

1. Be gracious. If you are rude or inconsiderate, I will still try to be kind when we are together, because of Jesus and in His Name. 🙂 (But, it is much more pleasant when your words and actions are seasoned with grace.)

2. Be honest. Generally, honesty and integrity should be first. But, if you aren’t gracious, it’s hard to connect with you…even if there’s something difficult I need to hear. (If the truth is spoken with a loving attitude, I’ll understand you have my best interest at heart.)

3. Keep your word. Let your ‘Yes’ be ‘Yes,’ and your ‘No,’ ‘No.’ Follow through on what you say you will do. If you can’t do something, that’s alright, no problem! (Just don’t sign up for it…No wishy-washy or empty promises, please!)

4. Be reliable and show up on time. Okay, those may be two separate things. (But they go hand-in-hand in my book.)

5. Pick up the phone when necessary… or just because. So many messages get mixed up via text and email. An encouraging word is always welcome! (I also appreciate a quick, “I received your message, thanks!” but I will let that one slide…ahem.)

6. Don’t read (more) into every single word or action. Let’s give each other the benefit of the doubt. Most people would never intend to hurt someone else’s feelings. Accidents happen. People make mistakes. Be quick to forgive. (As Joyce Meyer says, “Just because you are given offense, doesn’t mean you have to take it.”)

7. Smile! As my Grandpa Y. always said, “It doesn’t cost anymore to smile.” He was a very smart and well-respected man! (So, you’ll be smart if you take this advice and smile!)

8. Buy or send me chocolate. Brownies are only one suggestion! I like dark chocolate best, and my address is____________. (And yes, they do send cookies in the mail!)

Okay, okay, the last one may have been a little joke! As a Registered Dietitian and foodie, I still believe in and promote a healthy balance.

I don’t need piles of chocolate all at one time. But if someone could make a sign-up sheet, that would be great! 😉

These are general guidelines with no one particularly in mind. And this is not an exhaustive list. But seriously. A little grace goes a long way! Thanks in advance!

“Do to others as you would like them to do to you” (Luke 6:31).

Questions: What is on your list? How can I earn ‘Brownie points’ with you?! 🙂